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Thomas K. DePauw, age 64, of St. Paul, MN, passed away on April 30, 2025. Tom was born on May 30, 1960, and raised in the Highland Park neighborhood of St. Paul. He was a proud graduate and lifelong supporter of St. Thomas Academy. Tom built a successful career as Chief Financial Officer at Harris Company and Park Construction. He was known for his sharp mind, generous heart, and great sense of humor. Outside of work, Tom had a deep love for golfing, tracking the weather, grilling, and spending time at the hunting shack—activities that brought him joy. Proceeded in death by parents John and Mary DePauw. He is survived by his long-time friend and former wife, Sue DePauw, and their children, whom they both adored, Michael DePauw (Katie) and Michelle DePauw; grandchild, Parker DePauw; sisters, Kathy Graham and Susan McDonnell; and many cherished family members and friends. “Tommy D” will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him.
A visitation will be held at 1:00 p.m., followed by a memorial service at 2:00 p.m. on Thursday, May 15, 2025, at O’Halloran & Murphy Funeral Home, St. Paul, MN. A celebration of Tom’s life will follow, beginning at 3:00 p.m. at Mendakota Country Club. Bring your stories. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Thomas Academy in memory of Tom DePauw.
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