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Elmer B. Trousdale passed away on April 16, 2026 at the remarkable age of 95 having lived a full and meaningful life. Elmer was devoted to his beloved wife of 34 years, Jean C. Trousdale, whose passing came far too soon in 1991. She did not have nearly enough time to know all of her grandchildren, a loss Elmer carried with him. In later years, he was fortunate to find companionship again with Barbara Dwyer, a cherished friend. Elmer was born in Mott, North Dakota on March 3, 1931. He graduated from Georgetown School of Foreign Service in 1954 and Georgetown Law Center in 1956 where he graduated at the top of his class. Elmer and Jean got married soon after, and they moved to St. Paul to raise a family. Elmer had a distinguished career as a corporate litigator, primarily with the Oppenheimer Law firm. He was inducted into the American College of Trial Lawyers – an honor widely regarded as the highest in the legal profession. Among his many accomplishments, he played a pivotal role representing Control Data Corporation in a landmark antitrust case against IBM. The case brought national attention, including coverage in Newsweek. Beyond his professional achievements, Elmer embraced life fully. He had a passion for skiing and may well be one of the oldest skiers to take on Vail's legendary back bowls. He loved a great game of chess, winning at the bridge table, and his farm in Grundy Center, Iowa. Elmer’s greatest legacy was his generosity and devotion to his family. He was a steadfast champion of education. He taught his children the importance of working hard and spared no expense when it came to funding college and graduate degrees for his family, a profound sacrifice, reflecting a man who placed the well-being and future of his family far above his own comforts. Elmer was also committed to Minnesota Diversified Industries, a nonprofit empowering the career and success of people with disabilities. He served on their board for many years. He was preceded in death by his wife Jean C. Trousdale, his parents Elmer Herron Trousdale and Florence Martha Schilling, and brothers Loren, Roger, and Gordon. He is survived by his children, Cari Trousdale (Tina Garrett), Ann Schleck (Ray Schleck), Bill (Mary Lee Trousdale), Rob (Mary Trousdale), John (Mary Margaret Trousdale), Jim (Joanne LaMotte), 13 grandchildren and 18 great grandchildren. A private burial will take place and details regarding a memorial service will be shared at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please direct a memorial to the charity of your choice. Those who knew Elmer will remember his quick wit, intelligence, and generosity. He leaves an indelible mark on all who were fortunate to know him. He will be deeply missed.